Have you ever worked so hard toward something and still felt like nothing was working? Like every door somehow stayed shut no matter what you tried?

It's not because you weren't doing enough, or working hard enough. It's because part of you was working against the very thing you were reaching for.

Two realities, happening at once

There's the physical world, the one you can see and touch and measure. And underneath it, there's an energetic one... your inner state, your feelings, the quiet undercurrent running beneath every action you take.

And in this energetic world, you're like a tuning fork. Strike it, and it vibrates at a certain frequency. And everything around it picks up that same frequency and vibrates. You're broadcasting signals out into the world constantly. And life responds to whatever frequency you're actually sending, not just the one you think you're sending.

Where it gets tricky

Your desires are one signal. “I want this.” But your blocks are sending a signal too, at the very same time. “I'm not safe. I don't deserve this. I'm not enough.” And when both signals are sent out together, they cancel each other out.

Picture ordering a meal at a restaurant. You tell the waiter what you want, and just as he turns to bring it, you call him back... “Actually, I don't deserve that.” So he turns around. And you call him back again... “No wait, I do want it.” Back and forth, back and forth. Nothing ever arrives. Not because the kitchen can't make it, but because the order keeps changing.

This is what it looks like when you want a close and loving relationship… but you feel unlovable inside. When you want the rest… but feel like you don't have time and there’s too much to do. When you want the vacation… but feel like you don’t have enough money.

The way through

When you clear the block, there's no second signal working against the first. Your desire goes out clean, uncontested. And life has room to actually respond to it.

This isn't about trying harder or wanting it more. It's about clearing what's quietly canceling the wanting out.

I go deeper into this concept, including the two realities we’re all living in, in this video: [Watch: You Influence Reality]