It's just Monday and you're already tired. You're running on fumes. And usually, the only time to get sick is when you take time off.
And there’s this persistent longing for change that you can’t put off anymore.
But... everyone is counting on you. You're the trusted advisor for VPs and Directors. You lead your team to produce excellent results. The more you deliver success, the more work and responsibility you have.
Your days are a blur, the months and years catch you by surprise. And you wonder when you will have time for your interests, your passions, this whole other side of yourself — when you're always building for others.
So you tell yourself: "When the project is done. When the kids finish university. When the mortgage is paid. When I have more saved."
The "when" never comes. And the life you yearn for keeps waiting.
But in those moments you stop and catch your breath — on the ride home or before you go to bed — you know. You have always known. Your beautiful life has been waiting for you.
Not someday. Now.
And this leaves you feeling on edge. Like you no longer fit your current life.
So you built your awareness. You worked on yourself. Thinking, “I just need to learn to be content.”
There’s nothing wrong with you. What you’ve built is amazing! But now, you’ve simply outgrown this life. And you need to find your way to your next beautiful life.
My body wakes me up. Not an alarm clock.
I have the morning to myself: to meditate, reflect, journal, move my body, cuddle with my cat. When my husband wakes up, we linger in bed together before a late brunch.
After brunch, I spend thirty minutes checking messages. Then we head to the farmers market — fresh meat, vegetables, a stop at the bakery for a baguette and pastries on the way home.
Afternoons we hike up the mountain or sit by the clear blue lake. Or we find a bistro in the plaza and watch the world go by. Some days I meet girlfriends. Some days I swim.
Evenings (if I don't have clients) we go to a concert or the opera, then dinner at a restaurant in town. I take clients three evenings a week. The rest belongs to us.
Every day feels like a vacation day!
This isn't luck. This isn't a fantasy. This is what happens when you stop protecting what you have, and reaching for something more.
Now imagine your version.
Maybe it's not Provence. Maybe it's a cottage in the countryside, a slower city, or simply your current home… but with space to breathe.
Maybe it's the luxury of waking up late. Or work that excites you. Relationships that have space to deepen. A body that isn't running on fumes. Putting yourself first.
Maybe it's finally doing that thing you keep promising yourself.
Whatever it looks like, you've know it’s possible.
The only thing standing between you and that life is your commitment to finding the way.
This is where the Wayfinder Approach comes in.
You have a dream… this life you know is yours, even if you can’t yet see the way there. My work is helping you find that way.
The first hurdle isn’t “how”… it’s “can I?” Some of you will clear that first block in community, through Why Not Me? Others need something deeper and quicker… that’s Release!
Once you can see it, you’re ready for The Dance… where you start playing with the universe, moving closer and closer to the life you desire, through six competencies: desire, ask, become, listen, surrender, momentum.
And blocks don’t just disappear after that first clearing. They’ll show up again as you keep taking action, layer after layer, like peeling an onion. Each time you clear one block, more of your True Self comes into view… the person you were always meant to be. This adventure never really finishes. There’s always a next layer, a next level, more of yourself still unfolding. And your beautiful life continues to expand in relation to your True Self surfacing.
This is the path. Not only to the life you want, but to a bigger and better life beyond.
You’ve always made things happen for others. Now it’s time to do it for yourself.
But you don’t have to do it alone. It’s easier to find the way together. To leverage the collective forward momentum and energy.
That’s why I started a movement…and I am inviting you to join.
Change doesn't happen right away. It sidles in as you start opening up to the possibility that it could happen for you too.
I'm not asking you to join a program or commit to doing something drastic. I am inviting you to join a community of individuals who are exploring the possibility.
Why Not Me is a movement of those who are tired of sitting in the sidelines, watching others get what they want. Together, we encourage each other. We inspire each other. We give each other ideas and show each other what's possible.
We will have discussions on updating our lifestyle, discussions on setting up your own business, discussions on health and happiness. I will be sharing my own insights and what helped me on my journey. And we will be sharing resources for everyone to grow.
If you've tried programs, coaches, meditation and nothing is moving. I invite you to join and allow the movement to carry you.
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